Sharing our Sadness

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I'm continuing to workout. My trainer said I'd start to really want to workout after about three weeks. I knew that wouldn't happen, so in my mind I thought, well maybe after six weeks.

Nope.

Doesn't matter, though. I remain committed. And the great thing is that at each session I'm able to visit with a dear friend of mine, M, with whom I share the cost of the trainer.

Like me my friend M is feeling deep sadness at hearing the news of a diagnosis of cancer for our common mentor, A. After our workout session this morning, I went with M to Starbucks where we shared a few moments talking about why he has been such a crucial person in our journeys. At one point my friend said, "I just needed to be with you, Katherine, to share this sadness I feel."

We both teared up.

Comments

Duane said…
It would be nice to be able to share that sadness with both of you.
February 12, 2009 at 10:52 PM
Katherine E. said…
Yes it would, Duane. Totally.
February 13, 2009 at 5:52 AM
Sally Ferguson said…
Friends help us experience God in flesh! They help us hash out our confusion and share our joys.
February 13, 2009 at 6:17 AM
Jennifer said…
Isolated grief would be the pits.
February 13, 2009 at 2:35 PM
Jan said…
So glad you have each other. I am sorry.
February 13, 2009 at 8:55 PM
Rev SS said…
prayers for your mentor, his wife, and all of you who love and support them.
February 14, 2009 at 1:25 AM
Terri said…
Gosh....I'm so behind in the news...being consumed as I have been...sigh...so sorry to hear this!
February 14, 2009 at 6:25 PM
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